Jessica Drake’s 5 Tips for Oral Pleasure

Oral pleasure is intimate, playful, and deeply personal. Whether you're completely new to it or already confident in your skills, there's always room to learn, experiment, and discover new ways to enhance the experience.

At Wicked Sensual Care, we believe great intimacy starts with comfort, communication, and curiosity. Add the right lubricant to the mix, and oral pleasure can become even more enjoyable for everyone involved.

To help you get the most out of your experiences, Resident Sex Educator jessica drake shares five of her favorite tips for making oral pleasure more fun, creative, and satisfying.

1. Flavored Lube Is Your Secret Weapon

Flavored lubricants have come a long way. Today's high-quality formulas offer smooth glide, body-safe ingredients, and flavors that genuinely taste great.

Wicked Sensual Care's flavored water-based lubricants are designed to enhance oral pleasure without leaving behind a sticky texture or artificial aftertaste.

Popular flavors include Sweet Peach, Salted Caramel, Mango, Vanilla Bean, Birthday Cake, and Blueberry Muffin, giving you plenty of options to match your mood.

“Forget what you think you know about flavored lubes. Ours aren’t sticky or weird—they’re smooth, sweetened with stevia, and taste delicious.”

— jessica drake

For an extra playful experience, try combining flavors to create your own custom blends.

“Vanilla Bean goes with everything. Add a little Cinnamon Bun or Sweet Peach and suddenly you’re the main course and dessert.”

— jessica drake

2. Use Lube Everywhere—Not Just on Genitals

Flavored lubricants aren't limited to oral sex. They can also be used to explore other erogenous zones and add a new sensory dimension to foreplay.

Try applying flavored lubricant to areas such as the neck, chest, thighs, or anywhere that feels pleasurable and inviting. Exploring different sensations can make intimacy feel more playful and spontaneous.

“Turn your partner into a dessert buffet—or be the buffet. Use flavored lube on nipples, thighs, necks, even feet. Get creative.”

— jessica drake

For a fun activity, blindfold your partner and let them guess different flavors as you explore together.

3. Don't Overlook Unflavored Options

Flavored lubricants aren't for everyone, and that's perfectly okay. Sometimes a clean, neutral formula can be exactly what you're looking for.

Products like Aqua, simply® Aqua, and simply® Hybrid provide smooth glide without added flavor while still enhancing comfort and sensation.

“simply® Aqua is my go-to. It’s lightly sweetened with stevia, so it tastes good without being flavored, and it adds just enough glide for slippery, sensual strokes.”

— jessica drake

simply® Aqua is free from glycerin and parabens, making it a popular option for people who prefer simpler ingredient profiles or have sensitivities.

simply® Hybrid offers a silky, creamy texture that many people enjoy for both oral and manual stimulation.

4. Pair Hands and Mouth for Maximum Impact

Oral pleasure is rarely about one technique alone. Combining different forms of touch can create a more dynamic and satisfying experience.

Using lubricant can help reduce friction while making hand-focused stimulation feel smoother and more comfortable. The added glide allows for longer sessions and more variety in technique.

“Oral pleasure isn’t just about your tongue—it’s about how you use your mouth, hands, and intention together.”

— jessica drake

Experiment with different combinations of touch, pressure, and movement while paying attention to your partner's responses and feedback.

5. Make Oral the Main Event

Oral pleasure doesn't have to be treated as a stepping stone to something else. Giving yourselves permission to slow down and focus entirely on the experience can create deeper connection and greater enjoyment.

Consider creating an atmosphere that encourages relaxation and exploration. Music, lighting, comfortable surroundings, and your favorite lubricant can all contribute to a more memorable experience.

“French kissing with Butterscotch is one of my favorite things. Just kissing—no goal, no rush. See who can last the longest without going further.”

— jessica drake

Removing expectations and focusing on pleasure can help intimacy feel more natural, playful, and connected.

jessica drake's Philosophy on Oral Pleasure

“Lube is for every body. It’s for enhancing intimacy, reducing friction, and increasing pleasure. Whether you’re using our flavored lubes to spice things up or Aqua for a clean glide, the goal is the same: more connection, more confidence, and way more fun.”

— jessica drake

The best intimate experiences happen when people feel comfortable, confident, and free to explore what brings them pleasure.

Whether you're reaching for a flavored lubricant, a silky water-based formula, or a hybrid option, the right product can help create more enjoyable and satisfying moments.

Explore the full collection of flavored lubricants, Aqua, simply® Aqua, and simply® Hybrid products from Wicked Sensual Care and discover new ways to make oral pleasure even sweeter.