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Dear Wicked Sensual Care Community,   As we welcome 2024, we want to take a moment to appreciate how far we’ve come since our brand was born, and we know that so much of our success is because of YOU. You inspire us to bring new, meaningful products to the sexual health and wellness space,…

Five Ways to Use Wicked Sensual Care Flavored Lubes   One of the things Wicked Sensual Care is known for is an incredible collection of flavored water based lubes. If you haven’t tried ours yet, forget every bad experience you’ve had with flavored lubes in the past. These aren’t sticky, they’re not tacky, and they’re…

These 5 lube myths are still so common! See them debunked by Resident Sex Educator jessica drake. Lube is for people with “problems” NOPE. Lube is made to enhance your sexual experiences, decrease friction, and increase pleasure. If my partner isn’t wet enough, I’m doing something wrong. Not at all. People can experience vaginal dryness…

2023 Lube-o-scope Welcome to your lube horoscope for 2023! What type of sensual exploration will you discover in the new year? Whatever you’re into, Wicked Sensual Care has a lube for that. Find your sun, moon, and rising sign below. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19) The 10th sign of the zodiac and the last…

Happy Holiday Season! Greetings, reader. Time is FLYING by, and before you know it, it’ll be time to exchange gifts with the special people in your life. In the spirit of giving PLEASURE this holiday season, I’m sharing a few of my favorite things in the world of sexual health and wellness. 1. Our flavored…

When November began, I started up an old tradition of 30 Days of Gratitude. I quickly realized pleasure is on my list, and it takes many forms, including sensual gratitude. I love when the seasons change and I feel the first hints of crisp fall autumn on my skin. I love the foods that come…

Seasons Change.     It’s Libra Season!   I love October for a lot of reasons- the weather is changing, Halloween is coming, (and we know I love an excuse to dress up!) but most of all, I love it because Aids Walk LA happens in October- and that’s how I usually celebrate my birthday.…

Welcome to September, loves.   We’re in an extensive period of celebration- it’s still Anal Autumn, so feel free to keep exploring anal pleasure along with all the amazing lubes we have to compliment anal play. Refresh your anal education with this blog.   September is also Sexual Health month, coinciding with Back to School,…

It’s Anal August It’s officially Anal August! Before you read all the ways to celebrate  Anal August with Wicked Sensual Care, I want to share some information from Anal workshops I’ve given throughout the years.    At the beginning of class, I ask folks what their top concerns are about anal play. Here are the…

Why jessica drake Loves Silicone Lube Well… Summer is here. It seems like every time I’m ready to write a new letter to y’all, something happens. So much so that it’s not just things “happening”, it’s that the shit storm is ongoing. I don’t know about you, but I have a lot of feelings right…

What Pride Means To Me letter from jessica drake Happy Pride Month! As we dive into a Summer of the world continuing to open up again, we can expect to see bigger Pride celebrations than ever before, with people making up for lost time and realizing the value of connection and community. For me, Pride…

Think back to the first time you discovered masturbation.     That feeling of sheer pleasure and delight as you found something downright magical that your body can do just for fun. Think back to the frequency and intensity.   Now think about your masturbatory habits today. Are you still exploring your body with the…

Spring Has Sprung –  jessica drake’s 5 Things To Do With a Penis And apropos of nothing save for a vague correlation between Spring and erections, I’d like to take an opportunity to share my top 5 things to do with a penis.  5 Things To Do With a Penis   Turn a handjob into…

This month I’d like to share with you 5 of my favorite things to do for a clit. These may be great starting points for you to try on yourself, or maybe you’d like to suggest them to your partner. The only goal here is to explore and have fun, as we show our appreciation…

Love.   We’ve seen the signs on store shelves for weeks if not months by now, reminding us that Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching. I have some really mixed feelings about this holiday- commercialization of love and romance aside- because right before the pandemic began, my primary partner of 16 YEARS spent the day with…

Welcome to 2022!   I know I speak for most of us when I say that 2021 couldn’t end fast enough. Or 2020, for that matter. Each New Years Eve I imagine goals instead of setting resolutions, and in previous years I persistently tried to outdo myself from the past year. The pandemic brought that…

As the year comes to a close, we continue to reflect on what truly matters. This is the second holiday season where world circumstances make it harder to be close to our loved ones, and we recognize the importance of support and community more than ever.   As a team devoted to supporting, educating and…

Fall in love with gratitude   November is the usual time of year that folks get in touch with being grateful because of Thanksgiving, but I’ve come to use it as a yearly springboard to incorporate more gratitude on a daily basis.   It doesn’t always have to be forced “silver lining” positivity, either. We…

boo.   Happy Halloween season!   This is one of my favorite times of the year. I love the changing weather that brings out all my favorite soft sweaters.  I love Fall smells and tastes, too- like that warm, spicy apple cider taste (pro tip: mix our Candy Apple with Cinnamon Bun!) and the smell…

Hello friends!   It seems like the seasons are changing so fast. September is here again, and even though we aren’t still in the throes of the pandemic, it’s still here, and having a massive impact on all of our lives. We’ve seen all schools go virtual during these times, all the way from grade…

Here we are again, Anal August!   You may already know and love the joy of anal adventures, or you may be curious as to what the hype is all about. When I teach workshops on Anal Play, one of the biggest things we discuss is the harm in using any product that contains a…

Summertime and the livin’s…easy?   Hi friends!  Here we are in July already, and although the big reopening isn’t going exactly as imagined, overall, spirits are lifting. People are getting out more, we’re traveling, we’re seeing friends and family we haven’t seen for so long, and in some ways we’re making up for lost time. …

Summertime    Summer is definitely upon us, and as things begin to open up again, I’m seeing my timeline mostly full of two kinds of people- people who can’t wait to hit the road and make up for lost time, and people who haven’t quite been able to assimilate back into the day to day.…

MAYbe…   So, if April Showers bring May flowers, Maybe this month we fully embody the rejuvenation of Spring and open ourselves to the possibility of newness. We’ve spent so much time in the past year fearing for the worst, some of us surviving the worst, maybe now it’s time we pause and ask ourselves…

April showers MAY bring…   Spring has certainly sprung, and we’ve all heard the adage “April showers bring May flowers”. Now let’s apply that – and lots of lube- to putting a spring in your step this month.    When we talk about g-spot stimulation, we can say that all vulva owners do have this…

Spring is almost here. With this season, known as a time for renewal, growth and possibility, perhaps now even more than ever, you are experiencing your own awakening and rebirth.  I’m feeling (dare i say?) hopeful for the first time in what seems like a lifetime. Excited, even. I feel more in touch with my…

hi friends. love is in the air…or is it Covid?!? As we approach the one year mark of the pandemic, (I won’t be calling it an anniversary) Valentine’s Day is coming soon.  Some folks see it as an over commercialized holiday, some are really into it, and others (like me) fall somewhere in between. No…

we made it. Friends, I don’t have to tell you how dismal 2020 was. I recently came across my “20 Things to do in 2020” list that I wrote around this time last year, and out of those 20 things, I may have done 3. What I did do, and what you did too, was…

For many people, a new year brings a new set of resolutions. Maybe you added goals to your list like “go to the gym more,” “eat better,” or “meditate half an hour every day.” What about sex? In the quest to be the best version of ourselves, sometimes we overlook something solely for our own…