jessica drake’s Tips for Masturbation May

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It’s Masturbation May! As someone deeply passionate about sexual wellness and empowerment, I’m super excited to dive into one of my fave personal subjects: the art of self-love and the pure joy of masturbation. This month isn’t just a celebration of solo play; it’s a perfect time to get in touch with your body and…

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6 Sensual Valentine’s Day Suggestions from jessica drake

Hi y’all!    Valentine’s Day is upon us, and whether you’re in a relationship or embracing the joys of being single, it’s the perfect time to indulge in some sensual self-care or partner play. From tantalizing treats to solo sessions, I’ve got you covered. So, let’s dive into these wickedly fun and sensual suggestions, each…

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2024 Intentions

Dear Wicked Sensual Care Community,   As we welcome 2024, we want to take a moment to appreciate how far we’ve come since our brand was born, and we know that so much of our success is because of YOU. You inspire us to bring new, meaningful products to the sexual health and wellness space,…

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Five Menopause Facts and Essential Tips from jessica drake

It’s World Menopause Day, and I want to get the conversation started by giving you some facts about menopause. This conversation is long overdue and one close to my heart. Menopause is a journey experienced by billions, yet shrouded in mystery and misconceptions. It’s more than just a phase; it’s a powerful transition, a natural…

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the do’s & don’ts of anal play 

Happy Anal August! Maybe you’ve celebrated before, or maybe you’re brand new to this, but I’d like to share some very important do’s and don’ts with you about anal play. Feel free to pass this along to a partner to get a conversation going about the ins and outs of anal sex. First, my list…

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jessica drake’s Top 5 Flavored Lube Tips

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Five Ways to Use Wicked Sensual Care Flavored Lubes   One of the things Wicked Sensual Care is known for is an incredible collection of flavored water based lubes. If you haven’t tried ours yet, forget every bad experience you’ve had with flavored lubes in the past. These aren’t sticky, they’re not tacky, and they’re…

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5 Common Lube Myths Debunked

These 5 lube myths are still so common! See them debunked by Resident Sex Educator jessica drake. Lube is for people with “problems” NOPE. Lube is made to enhance your sexual experiences, decrease friction, and increase pleasure. If my partner isn’t wet enough, I’m doing something wrong. Not at all. People can experience vaginal dryness…

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5 Tips For Sensual Massage

The term “skin hunger” refers to our biological hard-wired need for human contact. During the worst of the pandemic as we were isolated, many people became touch deprived, causing anxiety, depression, and an overall increase in stress. In the midst of these difficult times, Wicked Sensual Care was working on mindfully crafting a line that…

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New Year, New Lube Adventure

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Out with the old and in with the new! January is a great time for fresh starts and trying new things, so I’ve put together a list of my five favorite Wicked Sensual Care products to ring in 2024. Awaken This clitoral massage gel acts as a stimulant to get the blood flowing and increase…

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Your Lube Horoscope for 2023

2023 Lube-o-scope Welcome to your lube horoscope for 2023! What type of sensual exploration will you discover in the new year? Whatever you’re into, Wicked Sensual Care has a lube for that. Find your sun, moon, and rising sign below. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19) The 10th sign of the zodiac and the last…

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jessica drake’s Wicked Holiday Gift Guide

Happy Holiday Season! Greetings, reader. Time is FLYING by, and before you know it, it’ll be time to exchange gifts with the special people in your life. In the spirit of giving PLEASURE this holiday season, I’m sharing a few of my favorite things in the world of sexual health and wellness. 1. Our flavored…

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Sensual Gratitude with jessica drake

When November began, I started up an old tradition of 30 Days of Gratitude. I quickly realized pleasure is on my list, and it takes many forms, including sensual gratitude. I love when the seasons change and I feel the first hints of crisp fall autumn on my skin. I love the foods that come…

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Seasons Change.

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Seasons Change.     It’s Libra Season!   I love October for a lot of reasons- the weather is changing, Halloween is coming, (and we know I love an excuse to dress up!) but most of all, I love it because Aids Walk LA happens in October- and that’s how I usually celebrate my birthday.…

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September Musings

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Welcome to September, loves.   We’re in an extensive period of celebration- it’s still Anal Autumn, so feel free to keep exploring anal pleasure along with all the amazing lubes we have to compliment anal play. Refresh your anal education with this blog.   September is also Sexual Health month, coinciding with Back to School,…

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It’s Anal August

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It’s Anal August It’s officially Anal August! Before you read all the ways to celebrate  Anal August with Wicked Sensual Care, I want to share some information from Anal workshops I’ve given throughout the years.    At the beginning of class, I ask folks what their top concerns are about anal play. Here are the…

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jessica drake loves silicone

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Why jessica drake Loves Silicone Lube Well… Summer is here. It seems like every time I’m ready to write a new letter to y’all, something happens. So much so that it’s not just things “happening”, it’s that the shit storm is ongoing. I don’t know about you, but I have a lot of feelings right…

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What Pride Means To Me

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What Pride Means To Me letter from jessica drake Happy Pride Month! As we dive into a Summer of the world continuing to open up again, we can expect to see bigger Pride celebrations than ever before, with people making up for lost time and realizing the value of connection and community. For me, Pride…

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Masturbation & Mental Health

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Think back to the first time you discovered masturbation.     That feeling of sheer pleasure and delight as you found something downright magical that your body can do just for fun. Think back to the frequency and intensity.   Now think about your masturbatory habits today. Are you still exploring your body with the…

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Spring has sprung

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Spring Has Sprung –  jessica drake’s 5 Things To Do With a Penis And apropos of nothing save for a vague correlation between Spring and erections, I’d like to take an opportunity to share my top 5 things to do with a penis.  5 Things To Do With a Penis   Turn a handjob into…

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Spring into pleasure

This month I’d like to share with you 5 of my favorite things to do for a clit. These may be great starting points for you to try on yourself, or maybe you’d like to suggest them to your partner. The only goal here is to explore and have fun, as we show our appreciation…

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Back to love

Love.   We’ve seen the signs on store shelves for weeks if not months by now, reminding us that Valentine’s Day is quickly approaching. I have some really mixed feelings about this holiday- commercialization of love and romance aside- because right before the pandemic began, my primary partner of 16 YEARS spent the day with…

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Welcome to 2022

Welcome to 2022!   I know I speak for most of us when I say that 2021 couldn’t end fast enough. Or 2020, for that matter. Each New Years Eve I imagine goals instead of setting resolutions, and in previous years I persistently tried to outdo myself from the past year. The pandemic brought that…

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Reflecting on 2021

As the year comes to a close, we continue to reflect on what truly matters. This is the second holiday season where world circumstances make it harder to be close to our loved ones, and we recognize the importance of support and community more than ever.   As a team devoted to supporting, educating and…

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fall in love with gratitude

Fall in love with gratitude   November is the usual time of year that folks get in touch with being grateful because of Thanksgiving, but I’ve come to use it as a yearly springboard to incorporate more gratitude on a daily basis.   It doesn’t always have to be forced “silver lining” positivity, either. We…

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boo.

boo.   Happy Halloween season!   This is one of my favorite times of the year. I love the changing weather that brings out all my favorite soft sweaters.  I love Fall smells and tastes, too- like that warm, spicy apple cider taste (pro tip: mix our Candy Apple with Cinnamon Bun!) and the smell…

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Just Keep Going

Hello friends!   It seems like the seasons are changing so fast. September is here again, and even though we aren’t still in the throes of the pandemic, it’s still here, and having a massive impact on all of our lives. We’ve seen all schools go virtual during these times, all the way from grade…

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Anal August

Here we are again, Anal August!   You may already know and love the joy of anal adventures, or you may be curious as to what the hype is all about. When I teach workshops on Anal Play, one of the biggest things we discuss is the harm in using any product that contains a…

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Summertime and the livin’s…easy?

Summertime and the livin’s…easy?   Hi friends!  Here we are in July already, and although the big reopening isn’t going exactly as imagined, overall, spirits are lifting. People are getting out more, we’re traveling, we’re seeing friends and family we haven’t seen for so long, and in some ways we’re making up for lost time. …

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Summertime 

Summertime    Summer is definitely upon us, and as things begin to open up again, I’m seeing my timeline mostly full of two kinds of people- people who can’t wait to hit the road and make up for lost time, and people who haven’t quite been able to assimilate back into the day to day.…

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MAYbe…

MAYbe…   So, if April Showers bring May flowers, Maybe this month we fully embody the rejuvenation of Spring and open ourselves to the possibility of newness. We’ve spent so much time in the past year fearing for the worst, some of us surviving the worst, maybe now it’s time we pause and ask ourselves…

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April showers MAY bring…

April showers MAY bring…   Spring has certainly sprung, and we’ve all heard the adage “April showers bring May flowers”. Now let’s apply that – and lots of lube- to putting a spring in your step this month.    When we talk about g-spot stimulation, we can say that all vulva owners do have this…

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Spring is almost here

Spring is almost here. With this season, known as a time for renewal, growth and possibility, perhaps now even more than ever, you are experiencing your own awakening and rebirth.  I’m feeling (dare i say?) hopeful for the first time in what seems like a lifetime. Excited, even. I feel more in touch with my…

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Love is in the air… or is it Covid?

hi friends. love is in the air…or is it Covid?!? As we approach the one year mark of the pandemic, (I won’t be calling it an anniversary) Valentine’s Day is coming soon.  Some folks see it as an over commercialized holiday, some are really into it, and others (like me) fall somewhere in between. No…

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we made it

we made it. Friends, I don’t have to tell you how dismal 2020 was. I recently came across my “20 Things to do in 2020” list that I wrote around this time last year, and out of those 20 things, I may have done 3. What I did do, and what you did too, was…

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The Gift of Pleasure

The holiday season is upon us once again. While this year may be vastly different from years past, we can still celebrate and show appreciation for our loved ones in many ways, whether separated by miles or masks, or together. No matter their shopping preferences, the gift of pleasure is a one size fits all…

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gratitude

hello friends. As we slide right into sweater weather and come closer to Thanksgiving, we see so much in the media about gratitude- journals and #30DaysOfGratitude hashtags on cheery IG posts. I don’t know about you, but entries in my Gratitude App (yes, it’s a thing!) were pretty few and far between there for a…

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SPRING into more pleasure

2019 is flying by! Spring begins in just a few weeks, and for those of us who may have let our New Year’s resolution for better sex get pushed aside, there’s no time like the present to start again. Spring is a perfect time for fresh new beginnings, and instead of being hard on yourself…

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April Showers

Spring has sprung! It’s a time for new beginnings and trying new things, like exploring your G-Spot (or someone else’s!) If you’ve ever been curious about squirting or female ejaculation, you’re not alone. Some find G-Spot stimulation VERY pleasurable…to the point of orgasm, or as a part of a blended orgasm. Here are some facts…

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New Year, new tricks!

For many people, a new year brings a new set of resolutions. Maybe you added goals to your list like “go to the gym more,” “eat better,” or “meditate half an hour every day.” What about sex? In the quest to be the best version of ourselves, sometimes we overlook something solely for our own…

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