Perimenopause and Sex: A Guide

Understanding Perimenopause: What Is It?

perimenopause and sex

Let’s talk about a major milestone in your journey – perimenopause. It’s that time before menopause where your body starts to change, usually kicking off in the mid-40s. This phase comes with its own set of adventures, like mood swings, hot flashes, and changes in your sexual desire. Knowing what’s happening is your first step in navigating these changes with grace and understanding.

Spotting the Early Signs

The road to perimenopause is different for everyone, but there are some signs you might notice. Look out for things like irregular periods, changes in your sleep patterns, and shifts in how you experience sex. These are your body’s way of hinting that perimenopause is starting.


Perimenopause Symptoms to Watch For:


  • Irregular Periods: One of the earliest signs of perimenopause. Periods may become less predictable in timing, duration, and flow.
  • Hot Flashes: Sudden feelings of warmth, typically most intense over the face, neck, and chest, often accompanied by sweating and a red, flushed face.
  • Mood Swings: Emotional fluctuations, including irritability, anxiety, and periods of heightened emotional sensitivity.
  • Sleep Disturbances: Trouble sleeping, difficulty in falling or staying asleep, often related to night sweats or increased anxiety.
  • Vaginal Dryness: Decrease in vaginal lubrication leading to discomfort during intercourse, often due to declining estrogen levels. This can lead to discomfort during sex- but don’t worry, we can help with that
  • Decreased Libido: A reduction in sexual desire, which can be a result of hormonal changes as well as other perimenopausal symptoms impacting overall well-being.
  • Weight Gain and Slowed Metabolism: Many people experience changes in their weight and body composition during perimenopause, partly due to hormonal shifts.
  • Fatigue: Persistent tiredness or a lack of energy, not always linked to sleep disturbances but often exacerbated by other symptoms of perimenopause.


When Does Perimenopause Usually Start?

Typically, it begins in your mid to late 40s, but it can vary. Some people even start experiencing early signs in their 30s. The average is around 47, but remember, everyone’s body has its own timeline.


Navigating Changes During Perimenopause

This time is all about fluctuating estrogen levels. You might notice things like vaginal dryness and a dip in your desire, but understanding these changes helps you manage them better.


Keeping the Spark Alive

Yes, maintaining intimacy during perimenopause can be challenging, but it’s absolutely doable. Talking openly with your partner and finding new ways to connect can make a big difference.


Perimenopause and Sex

If you’re feeling a dip in your sex drive, consider strategies like exercise, stress management, and exploring new sexual experiences.


Wicked Sensual Care’s simply® Timeless Lube Collection

Here’s where we come in. Our simply® Timeless lube collection is crafted to enhance your sexual well-being during perimenopause. These lubes are tailored to meet the unique needs of this phase, ensuring comfort and pleasure.


How to Choose the Best Lube?

The right lube can transform your sexual experience during perimenopause. Our collection caters to your body’s changes, making sure intimacy remains enjoyable and comfortable.


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Our products are backed by research, balancing moisture and comfort, perfect for tackling vaginal dryness during perimenopause.


Why Do Ingredients Matter?

Our simply® Timeless collection features ingredients like hyaluronic acid for hydration, aloe vera for soothing, and vitamin E for skin health. They’re free from harsh chemicals, providing a natural-feeling experience.


pH-Balanced for Your Comfort

Our lubes are pH-balanced, aligning with your body’s natural chemistry, making them a safe choice for this phase.


Embracing the Perimenopause and Sex Journey

Understanding and embracing the changes during perimenopause can turn this phase into a positive and empowering experience. Stay informed, embrace the changes, and remember, we’re here to make your intimate life as fulfilling and enjoyable as ever.




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