New Year, new tricks!

For many people, a new year brings a new set of resolutions. Maybe you added goals to your list like “go to the gym more,” “eat better,” or “meditate half an hour every day.” What about sex? In the quest to be the best version of ourselves, sometimes we overlook something solely for our own pleasure.

Let’s make this year the year to shamelessly explore ourselves, inside and out!

One of my sex goals this year was to further explore sensation play. Our Toy Fever and Toy Breeze are super thick water-based heating and cooling lubes that go on and stay exactly where you want them. You can use them both at the same time on different locations- try using Toy Breeze with a plug and Toy Fever with a vibe, or choose one and have your partner use the other. To further amplify sensations, try a blindfold on your partner and let the sensations surprise them! Your only limits are your personal boundaries and your imagination.

If “trying new things” is at the top of your list and you want to explore anal play, don’t dive right in. Instead, take it slowly. Warming up is important, and so is lubrication. Jelle, our premium water-based anal lube will help with all your anal training needs, and I personally love the “Snug Plugs” from the Bvibe line to get you started. They come in a variety of sizes so that when the time is right, you can take it up a notch with ease. Remember, anal sex is all about education, communication, and lubrication, so choose wisely.

If lasting longer is your goal, Overtime can help you with some solo stamina training! “Edging” is a great technique- it’s essentially masturbating right up to the point of orgasm, identifying that moment, stopping, squeezing the head of the penis until the feeling subsides, then starting the process again. OT can be placed on the most sensitive areas of your penis before masturbating manually or using a sleeve or stroker. A little goes a long way.

Take one of these ideas or all of them, and make some of your own too. No matter what your New Year’s Sexual Resolution, Wicked Sensual Care has something for you.

xo,

jessica