Beginner’s Guide to Anal Lubrication & Play
Key Points Anal play requires lube—always. Unlike the vagina, the anus doesn’t self-lubricate, so using a high-quality anal lubricant is essential for comfort, safety, and pleasure. Choose the right lube for your needs. Water-based lubes like Wicked Jelle are beginner-friendly and toy-safe, while Jelle Plus gently relaxes muscles without numbing, and Jelle Heat/Chill adds sensation…
Read MorePerimenopause and Sexual Wellness: Top Sex Toys
Your Body’s Changing—Your Pleasure Shouldn’t Have to Perimenopause marks the beginning of a new chapter. Hormonal shifts can start as early as your 30s or 40s and often bring unexpected side effects—hot flashes, irregular cycles, and for many people, changes in libido, sensitivity, and comfort during intimacy. But here’s the thing: this doesn’t mean your…
Read Morejessica drake’s Top 5 Sex Tips: My Go-To Advice for Better Pleasure
Hi everyone, jessica drake here! You know I love to talk about all things pleasure, sex education, and empowerment, and after years of giving workshops, writing blogs, and—let’s be real—having a LOT of personal experience, I’ve learned there are a few simple tips that always make sex better. Whether you’re single, partnered, into toys, or…
Read MoreBest Lubes for Same-Sex Couples & Queer Pleasure
Why Lube Is a Must-Have for Every Queer Bedroom No matter your gender, orientation, or how you love to play—lube makes everything better. But in the queer community, where pleasure often steps outside the traditional “tab A into slot B” narrative, lube isn’t just nice to have—it’s essential. Whether you’re having penetrative sex, oral fun,…
Read MoreHow to Choose the Best Lube for Menopausal Dryness
Why the Right Lube Is Essential Post-Menopause Let’s face it: menopause can bring on major changes in your body—and vaginal dryness is one of the most common (and frustrating). This can make sex not only uncomfortable but downright painful at times. The good news? Finding the right lube can completely transform your experience—bringing back comfort,…
Read MoreDemeter Delune’s Guide to Lube and Sex Toys
Many moons ago, I remember going to the local drug store to secretly acquire some lube. Why secretly? Well, I was young and planning to try anal sex for the first time, and I surely didn’t want to explain to the pharmacist or anyone else who worked at my small-town, local drug store why I…
Read MoreHow to Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship Post-Menopause
Why Post-Menopause Might Be the Best Time to Try Sex Toys Let’s get real: menopause changes a lot, especially when it comes to intimacy. Fluctuating hormones, dryness, and shifts in libido are common—according to the North American Menopause Society (2023), over 50% of postmenopausal people experience vaginal dryness and discomfort during sex. But that doesn’t…
Read MoreSexy Massage for Beginners: How to Create Intimacy and Relaxation at Home
Why Massage Is the Ultimate Turn-On (and How to Get Started) Ever had one of those days where stress and tension seem to steal all your energy for intimacy? You’re not alone—and that’s exactly why sensual massage can be such a game-changer. Massage is more than just a relaxing treat; it’s a powerful way to…
Read MoreDating During Menopause: How to Communicate About Sex
Menopause is often framed as the end of something—fertility, spontaneity, desire. But what if we flipped that narrative? What if, instead, menopause was the beginning of a new era in your love life—one where communication, confidence, and pleasure take center stage? Whether you’re dating someone new, re-entering the dating world, or deepening a long-term relationship,…
Read Morejessica drake’s 5 Tips for Oral Pleasure
From Wicked Sensual Care, featuring expert advice from Resident Sex Educator jessica drake Oral pleasure is intimate, playful, and deeply personal—and whether you’re brand new or a total pro, there’s always room to refine your skills, especially when you’re working with the right tools. At Wicked Sensual Care, we’re here to take the pressure off…
Read MoreHow to Choose the Best Lube for Masturbation or Toys
If you’re not using personal lubricant when you’re indulging in some solo time or playing with your favorite toys, you’re missing out. The right lube can increase your pleasure, making everything feel smoother, slicker, and even more intense. But with so many options out there, how do you choose the best lube for masturbation or…
Read MoreTop Rated Lubricants for Menopause: What Experts Recommend
Menopause is a transformative time in life. And let’s be real: it can also bring challenges, especially when it comes to intimacy. Vaginal dryness, discomfort, and changes in sensitivity are common, yet rarely talked about. If you’re feeling frustrated or even a little lost, you’re not alone. The good news? The right lubricant can make…
Read MoreThe Ultimate Guide to Flavored Lube
Flavored lube is one of the easiest ways to enhance intimacy, add variety to your bedroom play, and make oral sex even more delicious. Whether you’re new to flavored lubricants or a seasoned fan, this ultimate guide will walk you through everything you need to know, from the best lube flavors to creative ways to…
Read MoreMenopause as a Non-Binary or Trans Person: Tips and Product Recommendations
Menopause is often framed as a “women’s issue,” but the reality is much more complex. Many non-binary and trans people experience menopause too—but unfortunately, resources and support systems often fail to acknowledge their unique experiences. The language, aesthetics, and treatment options surrounding menopause are overwhelmingly cisgender-focused, leaving many gender-diverse individuals feeling invisible or alienated. …
Read MoreSex and Pregnancy: Navigating Intimacy Before and After Birth
There’s no question that both pregnancy and postpartum are transformative times in life—physically, emotionally, and relationally. While often celebrated, these periods also come with challenges, particularly when it comes to identity, emotions, intimacy of all types, and sex. As a therapist specializing in relationships and sex, I’ve seen how much misinformation, lack of information, or…
Read MoreWater-Based vs. Hybrid Lubricants: Which is Better for Menopause?
Water-Based vs. Hybrid Lubricants: Which Is Better for Menopause? The short answer – it depends on what you’re using them for! Hormonal changes during perimenopause, menopause, and beyond often bring new challenges, including vaginal dryness, discomfort, or a shift in sensitivity. But here’s the good news: the right lubricant can make all the difference in…
Read MoreValentine’s Day Sex Tips: Sensual Ways to Spice Up Your Romance
Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to celebrate love, intimacy, and connection. Whether you’re planning an elaborate date night or a cozy evening at home, it’s a great time to explore new ways to deepen your bond with your partner—or indulge in self-care if you’re flying solo. To help you set the mood, we’ve rounded…
Read MoreHow to Do the Reverse Missionary Sex Position
If you’re looking for a super challenging sex position to check off your sex bucket list, may we present…reverse missionary. It’s missionary but in a very different font, with the person on top rotated 180 degrees so you’re feet-to-face, with your body parts arranged in ways that semi-defy the laws of physics. Read more
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Announces New Sensual Massage Oils
Wicked Sensual Care Announces New Sensual Massage Oils Wicked Sensual Care is expanding their popular sensual massage collection with three new Sensual Massage Oils, designed to elevate any massage experience. Available in three aromatic blends—Lavender + Rosemary, Lemongrass + Ginger, and Vanilla + Sugarcane—each oil nourishes the skin with spa-quality ingredients, including Vitamin E and…
Read MoreThe Lube-O-Scope: Your Zodiac Guide to Pleasure in 2025
The stars have aligned, and your celestial pleasure forecast is here! Welcome to The Lube-O-Scope, where each zodiac sign gets a tailored Wicked Sensual Care product to match their energy and desires for 2025. Whether you’re igniting solo sessions or spicing up moments with a partner, we’ve got the perfect lube to elevate your experience.…
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Announces New Sensation Kit Featuring Aqua Heat and Aqua Chill
Wicked Sensual Care Announces New Sensation Kit Featuring Aqua Heat and Aqua Chill Opposites really do attract! Wicked Sensual Care is thrilled to introduce the Sensation Kit, a travel-sized duo featuring two of their most popular water-based lubricants—Aqua Heat and Aqua Chill. This compact kit empowers you to explore the exciting world of sensation play…
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Partners with Zachary Zane for Holiday Gift Guide
Wicked Sensual Care Partners with Zachary Zane for Holiday Gift Guide Wicked Sensual Care has announced a special collaboration with sex and relationship expert Zachary Zane, unveiling Zachary Zane’s Wicked Sensual Care Gift Guide just in time for the festive season. Zane’s guide takes a candid and intimate approach to navigating holiday stress with a…
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Announces 2024 Survey of Pleasure
Wicked Sensual Care Announces 2024 Survey of Pleasure Wicked Sensual Care, the award-winning personal lubricant and sexual wellness brand, invites you to take part in its 2024 Survey of Pleasure! This annual survey is designed to explore the diverse ways people enhance intimacy and pleasure in their lives while helping shape the future of Wicked…
Read MoreLubrication Tips for Menopause
Menopause is a natural part of life, but the changes it brings can create challenges in intimacy and pleasure. If you’re navigating perimenopause, menopause, or post-menopause, and experiencing issues with pleasure and vaginal dryness, you’re not alone. One of the most common issues associated with menopause is vaginal dryness, which can make sex, toy use,…
Read MoreA Year of Innovation and Impact for Wicked Sensual Care
Wicked Sensual Care, the award-winning leader in sexual health and wellness, celebrates a transformative 2024, marked by groundbreaking product releases, strengthened leadership, and continued commitment to inclusivity and consumer well-being. From new product innovations to industry accolades and philanthropic milestones, 2024 reaffirms Wicked Sensual Care’s position as a pioneer in the sexual wellness market. 1.…
Read MoreHow to Jumpstart Your Libido with Sensual Massage
There are many massage styles available, but one you won’t typically see on a professional massage therapist’s menu is sensual massage. I don’t recommend asking for one either, this isn’t a menu hack like you see on TikTok for Starbucks — that’s a good way to be asked to leave whatever spa you’re attending. If…
Read MoreVaginal Atrophy and Long-Term Abstinence Post-Menopause: Safely Resuming Sexual Activity
If you’ve been celibate for a while during or post menopause, the thought of resuming sexual activity might feel a little intimidating. Maybe you’ve wondered, “Will it hurt? Is my body capable of enjoying intimacy again? How do I bring this up with my partner—or my doctor?” You’re not alone in these feelings. For many…
Read More5 Ways to Prioritize Pleasure During the Holiday Chaos
The holidays can be a whirlwind of parties, travel, and family drama, making it hard to find time for the most important connection—intimacy with your partner(s). If you’re looking to keep the spark alive amidst all the chaos (and maybe heat things up a little), these five tips will help you make pleasure a priority…
Read MoreEmbracing Sensual Gratitude: Finding Balance and Beauty in Every Moment
Everyone is going through a lot these days, and in the midst of our busy lives, it’s important to find those moments that bring us back to center, where we can appreciate the beauty that surrounds us. To me, sensual gratitude is about bringing balance to my life by embracing my senses, savoring the present,…
Read MoreHow to Talk to Men About Perimenopause, Menopause and Sex
For many men, navigating the changes that menopause brings can feel like unfamiliar territory, especially when it comes to supporting their partner’s needs in the bedroom. But here’s the truth: with the right information and a little empathy, menopause can be a chapter of growth, discovery, and renewed intimacy for both of you. In this…
Read MoreSafety and Connection is the New Orgasm by Elle Chase
Why Feeling Safe and Connected to Your Partner, Not Orgasms, Makes for Better Sex By Elle Chase, CSE, ABS Everywhere you look, there’s a new trend or technique promising to enhance your sex life. Whether it’s a groundbreaking new kind of orgasm you’re apparently missing out on, or a foolproof position guaranteed to…
Read MoreZachary Zane’s Wicked Sensual Care Holiday Gift Guide
The holidays are allegedly the most wonderful time of the year, but between seeing (estranged) family members, spending money on gifts, the cancellation of flights due to weather, and the general chaos at the airport, most of us feel pretty damn stressed. If there’s one way to relieve stress—a tried and true method that has…
Read MoreCassie Pendleton Rejoins Wicked Sensual Care’s Dynamic Leadership Team
Cassie Pendleton Rejoins Wicked Sensual Care’s Dynamic Leadership Team Wicked Sensual Care, a leading name in sexual health and wellness, proudly announces the return of Cassie Pendleton as Director of Business Development. Her re-addition strengthens the company’s leadership team as it continues to innovate and expand in an evolving sexual health marketplace. Pendleton will collaborate…
Read MoreUnderstanding the Benefits of Hybrid Lubes: The Best of Both Worlds
When it comes to personal lubricants, the choice between water-based and silicone-based lubes has always been a balancing act. Some people prefer the easy cleanup of water-based lubricants, while others love the long-lasting glide of silicone-based options. But what if you could have the best of both worlds? Hybrid lubricants combine the strength of both…
Read MoreSafe Sex and Menopause: When to Stop Worrying About Pregnancy
Menopause brings significant changes to the reproductive system, so it’s not surprising that one question many people have is: “When can I safely stop using birth control?” If you’re navigating perimenopause, menopause, or are postmenopausal, understanding how long to use contraception is crucial to prevent unintended pregnancy and maintain safe sexual practices. Keep reading for…
Read MoreBenefits of Warming Lube and Cooling Lube
When it comes to exploring intimacy, trying different lubes can be a real game-changer. We already know that lube reduces friction and increases pleasure, but beyond that, some lubricants offer special sensations like warming or cooling, which can bring an entirely new level of pleasure and playfulness to your experience. Whether you’re looking to explore…
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Raises Over $50,000 for LGBTQIA+ Organizations
Wicked Sensual Care Raises Over $50,000 for LGBTQIA+ Organizations Portion of Entire simply® Collection Proceeds to Benefit Marsha P. Johnson Institute in June This June, in honor of Pride Month, Wicked Sensual Care continues its commitment to supporting LGBTQIA+ communities. Since simply® Aqua Special Edition debuted in 2021, Wicked Sensual Care has proudly contributed…
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care simply® timeless
As we age, our natural lubrication decreases. Using a high-quality sexual lubricant increases arousal, pleasure and comfort. Lucky for us, Wicked Sensual Care has released simply® timeless, a new line of lubricants and vaginal moisturizers that I personally love! Read more
Read MoreEverything You Need to Know About Urethral Sounding & Sounding Rods
Urethral sounding was once a medical maneuver but it has since been adopted by kinksters as a beloved activity to stimulate the nerves inside the urethra. If you’re not familiar with this type of play or sounding rods, the tools used to stimulate the urethra, you’re not alone. Read more
Read More6 Icy Sex Toys To Keep Things Cool In The Bedroom
Turn any sensual moment into cold temperature play with this affordable Wicked Sensual cooling water-based lubricant. There are many sensation lubes out there, but not all rely on natural ingredients for that cold sensation. Read more
Read MoreAre you ready to celebrate “Anal August”?
According to former porn star and current sex educator Jessica Drake, it is a month to explore the pleasurable possibilities that anal sex offers. As well as being taboo, anal sex can also be a reason to celebrate for a month. Read more
Read MoreFavorite Sex Toys 2024
In November 2021, Shamus MacDuff and I posted our “Favorite Sex Toys for Seniors: Gift Guide for Our Lovers and Ourselves.” These remarkable products are still among our all-time favorites. Read more
Read MoreThe Best Personal Lubricants
Personal lubricant, or lube, can enhance both solo and partnered sex, making the experience more comfortable and pleasurable overall. It can protect delicate tissues. And it may be a necessity for those who enjoy anal sex or experience vaginal dryness. Read more
Read MoreThe Best Lubes for Moms for Every Occasion—From TTC to Living Your Best Sex Life
Sexual lubricants are easily overlooked for a variety of reasons. Some worry that using them means you don’t get wet enough “naturally.” Others assume that they will inevitably irritate your vulva. While any fear or doubt is totally valid, it would also be a shame to miss out on a valuable resource that could potentially…
Read MoreWorld Masturbation Day: Why is May 7 a day to celebrate?
May is Masturbation Month. You may have always thought of self-satisfaction as a solo or private activity, but porn star and sex educator for lubricant brand Wicked Sensual Care, Jessica Drake, argues that partner masturbation is an uncommon practice that we should consider much more in our erotic activities. Read more
Read MoreHow to Do the Eiffel Tower Sex Position and Heat Up Your Next Threesome
Looking for a threesome position that’s easy, versatile, and gives everyone an equally good time? Behold, the Eiffel Tower sex position. Originally a MMF position that involved dudes high-fiving (I know, so cringe), it’s evolved into a super customizable position that works with any gender/body part combo. Read more
Read MoreHow to Jerk Off Someone Else: Why You Shouldn’t Sleep on the Humble Handjob
This is the top tip because it really is the go-to enhancement for almost any sexual act. It’s also the easiest. You could skip every other tip and using some lubrication will still make a huge difference. Read more
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Unveils New Labels for Flagship Products, Announces Upcoming Releases
Wicked Sensual Care Unveils New Labels for Flagship Products, Announces Upcoming Releases Wicked Sensual Care, a leader in the personal lubricant industry, is proud to announce updated label designs for many of its flagship products. The updated designs bring a fresh, modern look to favorites like Ultra Silicone, Crème Stroking Cream, the Toy Love Collection,…
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Announces Menopause Hub and Education Campaign
Wicked Sensual Care Announces Menopause Hub and Education Campaign Wicked Sensual Care is excited to unveil a new comprehensive online resource dedicated to sex and intimacy during perimenopause, menopause, and beyond. The innovative Menopause Hub is designed to support individuals and couples as they navigate the changes that come with aging, providing expert guides, product…
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Introduces simply® Tropical Trio: A Limited Edition Travel-Sized Lube Set
Wicked Sensual Care Introduces simply® Tropical Trio: A Limited Edition Travel-Sized Lube Set Introducing the simply® Tropical Trio from Wicked Sensual Care: a limited-edition set of 1oz travel-sized, water-based lubricants in Guava, Pineapple, and Toasted Coconut flavors inspired by summer. Perfect for enhancing all types of play and toy use, these delicious flavors are available…
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Presents Live Q&A with Senior Sex Expert Joan Price and jessica drake
Wicked Sensual Care Presents Live Q&A with Senior Sex Expert Joan Price and jessica drake “Your Body’s Changing” February 22 at 12pm PST on Wicked Sensual Care’s Instagram Wicked Sensual Care is thrilled to announce an Instagram Live intimacy Q&A featuring renowned Senior Sex Expert Joan Price and our esteemed Resident Sex Educator and…
Read MoreSexual wellness market is witnessing rapid growth, with a value of $31.6 billion ; CAGR of 4.9%
According to the report, the global sexual wellness industry was valued at $19.7 billion in 2022 and is expected to hit $31.6 billion by 2032, growing at a CAGR of 4.9% from 2023 to 2032. Read more
Read MoreWicked Sensual Care Raises Over $50,000 for LGBTQIA+ Organizations
Wicked Sensual Care Raises Over $50,000 for LGBTQIA+ Organizations Portion of Entire simply® Collection Proceeds to Benefit Marsha P. Johnson Institute in June This June, in honor of Pride Month, Wicked Sensual Care continues its commitment to supporting LGBTQIA+ communities. Since simply® Aqua Special Edition debuted in 2021, Wicked Sensual Care has proudly contributed…
Read MoreDoes Frequent Sex Reduce Menopausal Hot Flashes?
Menopause is a natural phase of life that brings significant hormonal changes, often accompanied by a variety of symptoms like hot flashes, vaginal dryness, and mood swings. These symptoms can affect your intimacy and overall well-being, but there might be a surprising way to help alleviate them—regular sexual activity. In this blog, we’ll explore how…
Read MoreGuide to Sensual Massage with a Partner
The art of sensual massage is a deeply connecting and relaxing experience that can enhance intimacy and provide numerous physical and emotional benefits. Whether you’re looking to reconnect with a partner or enjoy some self-care, this guide will help you create the perfect massage experience using our luxurious sensual massage products. Understanding Skin Hunger The…
Read MoreHow to Have Anal Sex: Sex 101 with Jelle
At Wicked Sensual Care, we understand that anal sex can be both an exciting and intimidating experience. It’s essential to approach it with the right knowledge, tools, and mindset to ensure that the experience is enjoyable and pain-free. This guide will provide you with valuable tips on not just reducing pain during anal sex, but…
Read MoreYour Top Questions About Anal Play Answered by jessica drake
Happy Anal August — if you’re into that sort of thing — and I sure am! In fact, in the 15-ish years I’ve been a sex educator, I’ve done so many online and in person workshops on anal sex –- from Anal 101 for beginners to way more advanced topics. Anal sex is just one…
Read MoreHow to Talk to Your Doctor About Menopause
Living with menopause can feel like a wild ride, but talking to your doctor doesn’t have to be intimidating. Whether you’re just starting to notice the signs of perimenopause or are already in the thick of things, it’s crucial to advocate for yourself and your needs. Let’s chat about how to confidently discuss menopause and…
Read MoreSensual Tips for Long Distance Relationships
Long-distance relationships can be tough, but with some creativity and effort, you can keep the intimacy alive. Whether you’re separated by miles, live across town from each other, or just have a busy schedule, these tips can help you stay connected and maintain that spark. Let’s explore various ways to create a sense of intimacy…
Read MoreManaging Decreased Sex Drive During Menopause
Menopause, while a natural phase in the aging process, brings about changes that can impact sexual health, particularly sex drive. Many individuals experience a decrease in libido, which can be a source of stress, affecting personal relationships. At Wicked Sensual Care, we believe it is important to address these intimate concerns as they arise. Our…
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