Valentine’s Day Sex Tips: Sensual Ways to Spice Up Your Romance

Valentine’s Day is the perfect opportunity to celebrate love, intimacy, and connection. Whether you’re planning an elaborate date night or a cozy evening at home, it’s a great time to explore new ways to deepen your bond with your partner—or indulge in self-care if you’re flying solo.

To help you set the mood, we’ve rounded up some of the best tips and product recommendations inspired by sex educator jessica drake. From sensual massage to flavored and anal lubes, there’s something for everyone in this guide.

 

1. Set the Stage for Intimacy

Creating the right atmosphere can transform an ordinary evening into an unforgettable experience. Start by setting the mood:

  • Lighting: Dim the lights or use candles to create a soft, romantic glow.
  • Scents: Enhance the ambiance with a diffuser or incense. For a massage, try Wicked Sensual Care’s Orange Blossom + Patchouli Massage Cream to add a sultry aroma.
  • Sounds: A curated playlist can heighten the moment. 

sensual massagePro tip: Incorporate pillows or wedges to support different parts of the body during massage or other activities. They can enhance comfort and open up new possibilities for exploration.

 

 

2. Explore the Art of Sensual Massage

A sensual massage is a fantastic way to relax and connect with your partner. It’s about more than just touch—it’s an opportunity to build emotional and physical intimacy.

 

  • Choose the Right Massage Cream or Oil: Wicked Sensual Care offers a variety of luxurious massage creams and oils like Stripped + Bare (fragrance-free) or Sage + Sea Salt (invigorating and rejuvenating) massage creams, and Lavender + Rosemary or Lemongrass + Ginger sensual massage oils.
  • Warm It Up: Warm the cream or oil in your palms before application for a soothing start.
  • Experiment with Strokes: Use your palms, knuckles, and thumbs to find the pressure that feels best.

Massage doesn’t have to be perfect—it’s about being present and attentive to your partner’s needs. And if you’re solo this Valentine’s, treat yourself to the same indulgence!

3. Sweeten Things Up with Flavored Lubes

Flavored lubricants aren’t just for oral sex; they’re a playful way to explore your partner’s body. Wicked Sensual Care’s line of flavored lubes, sweetened with stevia, is perfect for turning your partner into a "tasty buffet."

 

  • Try a Taste Test: Blindfold your partner and have them guess the flavors. Favorites like Salted Caramel and Sweet Peach are sure to be a hit.
  • Create Dessert-Inspired Combos: Mix flavors like Vanilla Bean with Cinnamon Bun for a baked-goods-inspired experience.

Don’t forget: flavored lubes are also great for enhancing kissing sessions or adding fun to anal play.

 

4. Ignite the Heat with Warming Lubes

Warming lubricants can bring an added layer of excitement to your Valentine’s Day. Products like Aqua Heat and Ultra Heat provide a gentle, warming sensation that mimics the closeness of a partner’s touch.

  • How to Use: Apply a small amount to sensitive areas and slowly increase the amount as you become accustomed to the heat.
  • Pair It Up: Combine warming lubes with massage creams or flavored lubes for a multi-sensory experience.

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5. Dive into Anal Play

Valentine’s Day is an excellent time to explore new sensations, including anal play. Start slow and use high-quality lubricants designed specifically for anal comfort.

  • Best Products: Wicked Sensual Care’s Jelle PLUS Anal Lubricant is a thick, smooth option with natural relaxants perfect for beginners and seasoned pros alike.
  • Hybrid Options: For a longer-lasting glide, try a hybrid lube like simply® Hybrid.

Pro tip: Always use a generous amount of lube and communicate openly with your partner about comfort levels.

 

6. Turn Up the Temperature in the Shower

Want to take your Valentine’s Day to new heights? Bring the romance into the shower.

  • Silicone Lubes for Wet Fun: Wicked Sensual Care’s Ultra Silicone Lube is water-resistant, making it ideal for steamy shower play.
  • Tips for Success: Use the shower as a space for playful exploration, whether it’s a massage under running water or a slippery make-out session.

 

7. Enhance Sensations with Blindfolds

Blindfolds can heighten other senses, making every touch, taste, and sound more intense.

  • Flavored Lube Surprise: Apply different flavors while your partner is blindfolded and let them guess each one.
  • Temperature Play: Use warming and cooling lubes together to create contrasting sensations.

This simple addition can add an element of mystery and anticipation to your evening.

8. Don’t Forget Self-Love

Valentine’s Day isn’t just for couples. If you’re spending the day solo, embrace self-care with a sensual twist.

  • Masturbation Benefits: Regular self-pleasure can improve sleep, boost mood, and even enhance confidence during partnered sex.
  • Products to Try: Experiment with Wicked Sensual Care’s Toy Heat for a cushioned, warming sensation that enhances solo play.

As jessica drake says, "Exploring your desires can be incredibly satisfying and empowering."

 

9. Plan for Aftercare

After an evening of exploration, it’s essential to wind down and reconnect.antibacterial toy cleaner

  • Clean Up Together: Use Wicked Sensual Care’s Cleene or Foam n Fresh Antibacterial Toy Cleaners to clean any toys you used.
  • Hydrate and Cuddle: Share a glass of water, reflect on the experience, and enjoy some cozy cuddle time.

 

Celebrate Love Your Way

Valentine’s Day is all about celebrating love—whether it’s with your partner or yourself. By exploring sensual massage, flavored and warming lubes, and new forms of play, you can create a night to remember.

Ready to set the mood? Check out Wicked Sensual Care’s sensual massage creams, flavored lubes, and anal lubes to make this Valentine’s Day your most intimate yet.

Happy Valentine’s Day!

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